So I guess you’ve heard what happened to me. My man, the man I thought I loved and respected, stole my dildo! It was truly a bummer, and it made me reconsider everything I know about loyalty and relationships.
To be honest, I can’t believe he would do such a thing. He knew how much my vibrator meant to me, yet instead of respecting that, he decided to take it anyways. Who does that?
I just don’t get it. He has never shown any signs of being this kind of person before. Maybe I should’ve seen the signs, but it just came out of nowhere. It really hurt my feelings, because it felt like a complete betrayal of my trust.
He claims that it was an accident, and he had no idea that it was mine. But honestly, how could he not? Plus, it was the most expensive one I had ever bought.
It’s been a while since it happened, and now I’m wondering if he did it on purpose. Do guys even steal women’s sex toys?! Is that a thing these days? Does it mean anything about our relationship if he did?
One thing I know for vibrators sure, it showed me how little he respects me. It made me realize that he’s not really the person I thought he was. I guess I should’ve seen the signs sooner but I never expected him to stoop that low.
A situation like this makes me question if I even want to stay in this relationship. All I know is that it sure isn’t the same as it used to be.
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It’s hard for me to accept that my boyfriend could be so careless and selfish. From the time I’ve known him, he’s always been a stand-up guy; loyal, considerate and thoughtful. That makes it all the more difficult for me to wrap my head around why he would steal my dildo.
But now that it’s out of the way, it’s time for me to consider the bigger implications of his actions. Is he even the same man I thought he was? Is our relationship going to suffer in any way because of this? Did he do it on purpose, or was he being careless?
These are the questions I’ve been asking myself ever since I found out what happened. But I’m still struggling to find the answers. I’m trying my best to put the pieces together and make sense of it all, but it’s not always easy.
The other thing I keep wondering is if it’s normal for men to steal women’s sex toys. Is it something they do often, or is my boyfriend an exception to the rule? I honestly have no idea, but it still makes me wonder.
I’m also concerned that his actions may have damaged our relationship beyond repair. After all, I can’t help but feel like he doesn’t care or respect me enough to not take my most intimate possessions.
Finally, I’m still trying to decide if a relationship like this is really what I want. It seems like all of the trust and respect we once had is gone and I feel like I can’t trust him to be there for me anymore.
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At first, I was completely in shock that the man I love and trust would so deliberately betray my trust like that. After all, I never expected someone I care about to steal from me.
It has made me question how well I know my partner, as well as the strength of our relationship. It’s even made me question if I even want to be in a relationship with someone who could be so careless, selfish, and inconsiderate.
These days, It can be hard to tell what someone will do when they’re put in a position of power, or when they feel tempted. But I still can’t help but feel let down and hurt by his decision to take what wasn’t his.
I’m still struggling to grasp how someone I thought I knew so well could do such a thing. It makes me wonder if he did it on purpose, and if so, how much he really knows about me.
I can’t help but feel like his actions show that he doesn’t respect me very much. These kinds of things inevitably leave scars in a relationship, and I’m still trying to decide if I’m even willing to try and fix it or move on for good.
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The thought of what caused my man to steal my dildo still baffles me. When it first happened, I couldn’t comprehend why he would do something like that. After all, he was always a stand-up kind of guy.
I had to consider if he did it on purpose, or if he was just being careless. But no matter the reason for his actions, there was one thing I knew for certain. His actually stealing my most intimate possessions showed that he doesn’t respect me enough to not take it.
So I’ve done some soul-searching on this one. I’ve done my best to piece together what’s happened, and I’ve done a lot of internal work as to how I feel.
I’ve come to terms with the fact that our relationship has likely gone downhill since it happened. No matter what I do, it’s difficult for me to shake off the feeling that I can’t trust him to be there for me anymore.
I keep thinking that if he could do something like this, what would stop him from doing it again? After all, I never expected someone I care about to steal from me.
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I’ve been sitting here trying to figure out why my man would steal my dildo. It doesn’t make any sense to me, and it has caused a lot of tension between us.
I mean, I knew him to be a decent guy, but this was a slap in the face. Not only did he show a lack of respect for my possessions, but to me as a person.
I can’t help but feel like this is a negative sign of things to come for our relationship. His actions show that he doesn’t think I’m worth the emotional effort it takes to keep a strong and healthy relationship going.
As I mentioned before, I haven’t been able to determine why he would do something like this. Was it a mistake? Did he do it for revenge? Was it because he’s insecure? I just don’t know.
What I do know is that our relationship is now in a rocky state. I still can’t help but feel hurt and betrayed by his actions, and I’m wondering if a relationship like this is something I’m willing to fight for.