I was scrolling through You Tube, looking for something unusual, when I stumbled upon a blow up sex doll video. I couldn’t believe my eyes; I mean, who in their right mind would want to watch something like that? But I was so intrigued I couldn’t stop watching.
The doll in the video looked eerily lifelike, with its soft skin and realistic features. I was shaken by just how realistic it was, to the extent that I wasn’t sure if I was looking at a real human or a doll. The viewer seemed to be having fun with it and as I watched, I felt a strange sense of uneasiness mixed with fascination.
I had just witnessed a glimpse of a forbidden world of pleasure, as if I had crossed the threshold into a secret place. This feeling became even more pronounced when I heard the cheering and laughter of the people behind the camera.
After the initial shock had worn off, I thought to myself: what a bizarre world we live in. So much about society’s taboos have changed, even if we’re too afraid to talk about them openly. I couldn’t help but also wonder who else has seen this video, and what they made of it. Are they like me, feeling slightly unsettled? Or are they into it? It made me realise how naïve I can be about the things taking place online.
Beyond my surprise and fascination, seeing the video made me think hard about whether or not this is actually something we should be celebrating, or something we should be wary of. After all, it’s not something I’d want my family and friends to know about. On the other hand, if we’re honest, the taboos implied by the video aren’t new; they’ve been around for sex toys a long time, but perhaps we don’t want to acknowledge them.
As I mulled over this dilemma, a thought occurred to me—some people might be more open to the idea of using a blow up sex doll than others, but no matter what, it’s not something I’ve ever considered and it’s certainly not something I’m about to go out and try. The truth is, I think it’s something that should come with exacting caution, because it’s not something you can undo.
I also can’t help but think, if someone isn’t comfortable talking about sex in the real world, it’s probably a really bad idea to try it out in the virtual world, especially with a blow up sex doll. I’m all for freedom of expression and exploration, but no matter what form it takes, there are still risks and boundaries to be considered, and these should be respected.
While I’m definitely not an advocate for blow up sex dolls, I can understand why some people would be curious to at least try it out once. I think that we should always approach anything new and different with caution and understanding and when it comes to something as personal as sex, it’s more important than ever to remember the safety and respect of others.
The video has made me reflect on why it’s so important to think critically about everything we do, learn and share online. It’s a world of unrestricted information, and although that can be liberating, it can also be very dangerous. We need to be vigilant and aware of the kind of content we are exposed to, and the kind of content we’re engaging in.
At the same time, I think it’s important to remember that some people might engage in activities we don’t understand, for all kinds of reasons. We all have our own unique experiences and wants and needs, and none of us can truly know what it’s like to be in someone else’s shoes. We need to be respectful of all types of expression and experiences, and understand that they are all valid in their own way.
In addition, I think it’s important to understand that when it comes to our sexuality, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. It’s different for everyone, and it’s important to respect that. People should be able to explore their sexuality in whatever way feels right for them, without having to worry about judgement or stigma.
Finally, I think that it’s possible to learn from the video, and to use it as a starting point for conversations about sex toys and sexuality. We can use it to think critically about our own experiences and expectations, as well as those of the people around us. We can use it to open up conversations about difficult topics, such as consent, respect, boundaries and mutual understanding. And we can use it to start discussions about what it takes to be a responsible and conscientious adult, both online and off.